Don’t waste your Second Life
On 2 August 2007, William Gibson, author of Neuromancer and ‘father’ of the cyberpunk genre (he coined the term ‘cyberspace’), gave a reading of his new novel, Spook Country, in the virtual world of Second Life. According to the Times Online, fans queued up for hours to get a good spot (yes, there are seating restrictions even in cyberspace!) Even though it was mainly a promotional event for Gibson's work, the main thing everyone wanted to know was whether Second Life lived up to his original conception of cyberspace. Did he like it? Did he think it was cool? Did he think they were cool for being there?
Well, according to this interview in Salon, Gibson found Second Life “too conventional”: “It never would have occurred to me to write something about a corporation building a virtual world in which shopping and real estate were two of the most popular activities”.
Conventionality aside, many find Massive Multi-player Online Role Playing Games (MMORPGs) like Second Life seriously addictive. They can be a lot of fun, allowing players to live the life they wish they had—as someone important, someone rich, someone powerful or someone beautiful. Take millionaire Anshe Chung, the Second Life avatar of Ailin Graef, who has become so successful in real estate and brokerage in the virtual world, her picture was featured on the cover of BusinessWeek in May 2006. (Curiously, the French documentary about cyberspace worlds, La Vraie vie des mondes virtuels, which contained an interview with Graef, also filmed her getting tattoos and making various other cosmetic changes to her physical body so she could look more like her avatar. Graef, like many other gamers, seems to believe that she is the character.) MMORPGs also make it possible for players to live out their fantasies: they can become a woman (if they are a man), a child (if they are an adult), an elf (if they're human), or a wizard who can turn people into frogs (if they're not a wizard who can turn people into frogs).
MMORPGs also expand social networks. Whereas, once upon a time, gamers were holed up in their bedrooms or, at most, had a few friends around to play in their lounge rooms, now they can play with people from all over the world. MMORPGs can enhance your real-life relationships (for example, a father and daughter who live in different US cities meet up regularly in an MMORPG to spend time together) and help you form new ones. It's even common for players to fall in love. Indeed, Turbine (the company producing The Lord of the Rings Online: Shadows of Angmar), when they surveyed the major reasons why people played MMORPGs, found that “what players ranked as most important weren't beautiful graphics or compelling storylines. They said they played because their friends were playing.”
But on the flip side, MMORPG-addiction can be a seriously problem—especially when your Second Life starts taking over your first. Take the case of Ric Hoogestraat: he has only been playing Second Life for six months but already he averages six hours a day (14 hours per session on the weekend). He'll only break to use the bathroom, sleep or eat a bit of food. David Storey's parents make the effort to get him out of the basement every now and then so he doesn't spend all his time online in Entropia Universe, but they admit that if they went on holidays, he'd only leave the room to eat or sleep. Lee Seung Seop, a South Korean industrial boiler repairman, was so obsessed with World of Warcraft (or, as some call it, ‘World of Warcrack ’) that, on 10 August 2005, after playing for 50 hours straight in an internet café, he died from cardiac arrest induced by exhaustion and dehydration. In China, there are now clinics for the addicted—especially addicted children.
MMORPG-addiction can also have serious effects on your real world relationships. Ric Hoogestraat is a married man, but he became so intimate with another avatar in Second Life, he asked her to become his virtual wife. They even had a ceremony which was attended by 30 of their Second Life friends. When his real wife found out, she was, quite understandably, upset—so upset that she joined EverQuest Widows, an online support group for spouses of obsessive gamers. Her husband replied that it was just a game. However, as The Wall Street Journal has found,
Family-law experts and marital counselors say they're seeing a growing number of marriages dissolve over virtual infidelity. Cyber affairs don't legally count as adultery unless they cross over into the real world, but they may be cited as grounds for divorce and could be a factor in determining alimony and child custody in some states, according to several legal experts, including Jeff Atkinson, professor at the DePaul University College of Law and author of the American Bar Association's “Guide to Marriage, Divorce and Families.”
One ex-World of Warcraft player even wrote,
Blizzard [the company behind World of Warcraft] has created an alternate universe where we don't have to be ourselves when we don't want to be. From my vantage point as a guild decision maker, I've seen it destroy more families and friendships and take a huge toll on individuals than any drug on the market today, and that means a lot coming from an ex-club DJ.
Looking at all this from a Christian perspective, several thoughts come to mind. Firstly, as we have all been given a finite amount of time by the creator of time, we have a responsibility to use it well. There is a place for playing MMORPGs for entertainment, relaxation and leisure, but we must be vigilant and exercise wisdom so that MMORPGs don't take over our lives (and our bank accounts).
Secondly, although MMORPGs (and, for that matter, social networking sites like Facebook) can be useful for creating, building and maintaining relationships, they are no substitute for real world face-to-face contact. We need to be careful that we don't neglect non-Facebook friendships—that we put more time into looking after our marriages than building cafés in Second Life—that we don't get so lost in the game, we end up neglecting our children (like this Korean couple who left their four-month-old daughter unattended to play World of Warcraft for an hour, only to return five hours later to find that she had fallen on her chest and suffocated to death). We may delude ourselves into thinking we're doing this for the sake of God's kingdom—forming ties with non-Christians who may not otherwise hear the gospel—but we must not engage in this sort of ministry at the expense of the relational responsibilities we have been given in the real world.
Thirdly and finally, although there is a place for fantasy and a certain degree of discontentment in our lives this side of Jesus' return (for life continues to be marred by sin), we must remember we have a ‘second life’ in store that we will live out for the whole of eternity—an existence more fulfilling and enriching than our imaginations can ever conceive of. Our lowly bodies will one day be transformed, and we will dwell in the presence of God where there are no more tears, no more death, no more mourning, no more crying or pain (Rev 21:3-4), in a place whose beauty will far surpass the pixels of Second Life or the designer graphics of World of Warcraft.
In the meantime, while we wait, we must exercise a certain degree of contentment towards the way God has made us. We may wish we had the gracefulness of elves, but we must remember that it was humans, not elves, that God chose to create in his image. We may wish that we had been born male instead of female (or vice versa) but we must trust that, in God's wisdom, he “fearfully and wonderfully” made us male or female (Ps 139:13-16). We may desire to be powerful, rich, famous or beautiful, but we must recognize that power, riches, fame and beauty are worldly values, and that it is more important to be “rich toward God” (Luke 12:21).
Ultimately we must realize that life itself is a Massive Multi-player Role Playing Game—a game where the challenge is to live before our creator and judge the way he intended: in holiness, in love and in reverent awe of the Lord Jesus Christ.